Has being busy become your new normal?

I’m betting you don’t even realize how busy you really are do you?  I want you to see yourself through the eyes of Men for just a second… 

A Man’s Thoughts: From your frizzy hair, no make-up, school teacher glasses, sweat shirt, fitted stretch pants & sneakers pushing a cart with your grocery list in hand. So casual and not even trying to be sexy…I see you.

Now if you’d just look up for a second so you can notice me noticing you. I just need a small sign from you that says “Yes, I’m available and I welcome your pursuit.” Just a small sign that gives a man courage enough to withstand the possible rejection of meeting Mrs. Right. A small sign that would yield the opportunity of experiencing my last 1st kiss, my lost rib, my happy ever after, girl next door, the final chapter of erotic climacteric capitulation.

I see you…but why can’t you stop being so busy, look up and give me a sign?

I understand you’re juggling a lot, but all men aren’t as confident as you think and we sometimes need just a little help from you.  This may not be your exact case, but if you’re partially guilty, its time to change it up!

So in order to attract the right mate, I’m challenging you to:

  • Stop being SO busy with being busy.
  • Do something Different.
  • Relax and pay more attention to your surroundings. You never know where love can be lurking. 🙂



Jack A. Daniels, also known as The King of Breakthroughs is a psychotherapist, media personality, award-winning speaker and 5 time best-selling author of books such as, “I Need a Wife…Where are the REAL Women?” and “Stay Out of Your Own Way.” He's one of the leading authorities for overcoming fears and getting people unstuck in love, relationships, business or life. Jack is a Master Storytelling Expert who helps beginning & established Speakers find their personal story and get PAID to speak. Jack has been featured on BBC, Fox News, Bravo, BET, CBS, NBC, ABC, WEtv, Cosmopolitan, Esquire, DateDaily and you can watch him every week on the FYI channel as the host of #BlackLove!

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